The Art of Sublime Invasion (pt. 2)

Now that you have a harmonious scene of information symmetry - an omnipresent look at their life, as a non-intervention deity - it's time to invade. Whereas before you were just gathering information necessary to change their life, you're now using what you've observed. Ideally, the surveillance methods come with some method of control, which hasn't been implemented during the observation period. Smart Home / Phone Invasion!

 And of course, first be sure to get enthusiastic consent before trying any of these. 

The same programs you use for surveillance can be allowed to act as methods of control. Some programs I've used and personally recommend are Mobile Tracker Free for Android and SpyFone for iOS. Both (paid versions) include restriction / blocking features and even some remote control features.

The detail of each of these:

FOOD

● Modify intake. This can include food or calorie counters, tracking receipts, weighing food, and restrictions. Special diets, carb / caloric restrictions, approved snack lists, and other forms of control can also be used. Additionally, if a submissive is too thin or eats in an unhealthy way, the same sorts of modifications can be used to do the opposite of restriction.

● Plan meals. There are a lot of meal planning tools. My favorite is Plan to Eat because it populates a grocery list and you can remove items a submissive already has in their possession. Purchasing meal services and other "kits" can be helpful as well. If a submissive requires a large amount of weight loss, there are options for that as well - and the bonus of those is that they're often bland and joyless - punishment food!

● Food delivery. Having a submissive’s address means you can have food delivered to them - either from a grocery store or from a restaurant. Either way, this is a delightful method of control that is easily done from afar.

HOME

● Bedtime. Most Americans have difficulty moderating bedtime routines, schedules, and sleep hygiene. Asserting a bedtime can be further enhanced by enforced phone restriction, turning off their lights, cutting off electricity to their televisions, and shutting off their computer (via TeamViewer). If a submissive has in-room monitoring you may also check periodically to ensure they're in bed.

● Down time. This is a euphemism for any free time, and specifically sexual - if you care to assert such control. Chastity, orgasm output evidence, porn / parental restrictions on their computers and phones, and a variety of other things can be done to assert your power over their sexual function. This can extend to nonsexual leisure time as well; cutting off television / social media usage, restricting their intake of video games, news and other modern distractions. Additionally, things can be added and enforced for their benefit - such as guests, dinner parties, visits to professionals, etc. 

● Atmosphere. If a submissive has any in-home methods of control, use them. This can include Nest, Amazon / Google Home, and consoles for lights or electronics. With these, you can make it hotter or colder - dim, bright, pitch black. Their home is your oyster; craft the environment to your liking. This can be used for punishment, comfort, or other sensory feedback the submissive may be craving. Environment can also be covered by other parts of the above chart, such as the amount of food a submissive has, or whether or not there is music playing on speakers or smart home devices and if you allow or restrict guests.

APPEARANCE

● Wardrobe. The submissive’s wardrobe can be enhanced or changed at will, with the advent of online shopping. I recommend sending a submissive to a local clothier to be fitted and measured, and then obtain items of high quality every so often. Ensure tailoring, bespoke / custom clothes where possible. This will force your submissive out of their typical mode and create a new facade for them to show very impressed circles of those who surround them at work or in their families.

● Hygiene. Depending on their routine (which you will typically figure out during the surveillance stage), you may want to make modifications to how they shave, cleanse, smell, present themselves, or feel. Skincare items, cologne, body oils, lotions, and other items may be purchased online. The establishing of a few routines and things may enhance their quality of life, such as safety razor rituals, teaching them a beautiful tie knot to polish their look, and instructing them to learn any of the hygiene bits in 100 Skills a Man Should Know. 

● Posture & Presence. Does your submissive have a non-graceful, clunky walk? Are they slouchy or prone to manspreading? All of these can be corrected in various ways. Orthopedic shoes, spine straighteners, undergarment posture correction girdles, are useful. Give them periodic reminders that they're being watched.

ACTIVITIES

● Meetups & munches. Even though your submissive may be distant from you physically, you can control who has access to them. By discovering local meetups, support groups, munches, and events, sending them to things is a great way to keep them busy and enrich their weaker areas. If you find that they're touch starved, you may send them to cuddle parties or FemDom clubs. If they wish to be pimped out or require sexual encounters, you may solicit hookup apps or ISO classifieds. Should the sub wish to hone their service skills, you can sign them up to learn the art of serving tea or to take butler classes. Even vanilla classes or gatherings can become BDSM ones by introducing the element of surprise, "force," or specific instructions.

● Dates. It goes without saying that many of these items will be for the growth of the submissive. The best Dominants are those who will always delight in micromanagement, even if the goals aren't reached immediately. Submissives are best when they're in top condition; to serve us in a way that is mutually beneficial is wonderful. Even if they initially don't understand why, we resolve to have a clear picture of what they need. In fact, even Dominants can use a third-party perspective sometimes, so feel free to discuss with the people whom they interact with about the good or bad things they observe about your dear one. This comes in handy because they may always discover new things about themselves and continue to realize new dreams or aspirations that you can help them reach.

● *Finances* With each individual submissive, there will be a greater or lesser emphasis on finance (or Financial Domination) - but this much is true: regardless of how much we love this work, it takes a large amount of effort, time, and money to do all of these things. So if your submissive wishes to have you manage every red cent (receipts, accounts, investments, and more), that's great. If they mostly wish to be monitored and controlled, but their finances are only background to that, also delightful. But many of the activities cost money or opportunity. All of which should boil down to you receiving a generous tribute. Appreciation is best expressed with dollars. Unless you wish to go on "strike" - pay your Dominant well; and be amenable to their hand in negotiation.

Once these have all been put in place or achieved, you will likely find even more ways to control your submissive. This is the best part, in my opinion. BDSM is infinitely fascinating, beautiful, and ultimately a perfect tool for self-actualization!