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Newsletter! Changes! Updates! *lure*

Posted by Madame Rax on Wednesday, July 20, 2016, In : Madame's Own 
Ch-ch-ch-changes!

MadameRax.com has had some revamping:

Findom menu now includes Bitcoin, a gallery of gifts, and the beginnings of My video catalog
There is now an "Invasive Measures" section, with blackmail and surveillance.
In surveillance, I listed the programs I use for distance monitoring/control.
I added a menu under "About" for Stats - so you can see more about Me.
Writing is a new menu item, and that is where this Blog is located. 
Sessions gained menus for ABDL, Double Domme, and Trainin...
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My Methodology, in points.

Posted by Madame Rax on Thursday, February 18, 2016,
The first step is reviewing My website. It is full of information about Me, My thoughts and evil-doing, and the method to My madness. There are all sorts of links, videos, and other tidbits on there. Learn it, absorb it, feel it, attach to it, live it. If you approach Me, show your preparedness: I am not going to engage in small talk and nonsense. If I were to cater to every slave I’d be in the hole, rather than the black. And I revel in the black.

The second step is filling out any appropri...

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Capitalism & Domination: A Love Story

Posted by Madame Rax on Wednesday, November 18, 2015, In : D/s Dynamics 
“Paying for it is a buzzkill.” “I like to have free sessions because it’s more real.” “Other inane platitudes that amount to cheapassery.”

Let’s sit around the campfire and discuss how there is a gulf between submissives and Dommes, in a monetary way. 

First, we shall define money, as provided in a concise sentence provided by Merriam Webster: 


  • Something generally accepted as a medium of exchange, a measure of value, or a means of payment.

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More, on Financial Domination.

Posted by Madame Rax on Thursday, November 5, 2015, In : D/s Dynamics 
Hard-earned dollars, leaving your bank account. I take hold of them, perking up your ears. Honing your senses. It is a fragile and vulnerable place. Dilated pupils, fear response. What will I do? How will you compensate? The control, the grip, the frantic tightness in your fists. They all let go. And I take over.

The application process and buy-in is the first step. Then the monitoring, the interrogation, the questions. The installation of software and apps. The knowledge I gain is the same k...
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The Programs/Websites I Utilize in FinDom & Online Domination.

Posted by Madame Rax on Friday, October 9, 2015, In : Madame's Own 

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3 Major Communication Problems & Their Fixes.

Posted by Madame Rax on Monday, September 21, 2015, In : D/s Dynamics 
In life, most people have difficulty arranging the right words to come out of their face at the correct speed, volume, and inflection to achieve optimal results. To make a business deal, get a job, buy a car, negotiate a rent price, receive a promotion - all of these things require great care in communication. 

Enter personal desire: all of the above things, one can argue, are not necessary per se, but integral to happiness or self-efficacy. But, what happens when the thing you crave isn't nec...
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Finslavery, My brand.

Posted by Madame Rax on Thursday, September 10, 2015, In : Madame's Own 
I was asked about how I conduct My finslaves' lives and experiences, vis-a-vis micromanagement and methods. Here was My response:

I micromanage every facet a slave is comfortable relinquishing control of, and usually quite a deal more than that. On the lighter side, I will use budgets and allowances; keeping reigns on your spending habits, and deciding how your paycheck is allocated. On the heavier side, I use tracking programs, surveillance, and keep passwords, records, and collateral. Lighte...

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Not just debit card games.

Posted by Madame Rax on Wednesday, August 12, 2015, In : Madame's Own 
Hold account numbers, passwords, access to email, Facebook/SM pages, keyloggers, online text/call/GPS tracker, in-home surveillance with remote viewing, dietary restrictions, occasional Domme-led wishlist spending sprees, booking vacations, occasional assignments, opening lines of credit or loans, blackmail...

These are a few of My favorite things.

Madame.

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Financial Slavery Rehabilitation.

Posted by Madame Rax on Monday, August 3, 2015, In : Rehabilitation 
So, I have been thinking lately, about My relationship with slaves who are hopelessly addicted to financial domination. 

When I say "hopelessly addicted" - I mean it. Let's take into account the definition of addiction:

Addiction is a condition that results when a person ingests a substance or engages in an activity that can be pleasurable but the continued use/act of which becomes compulsive and interferes with ordinary life responsibilities, such as work, relationships, or health.

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The beginning of My blackmail book.

Posted by Madame Rax on Tuesday, April 14, 2015, In : Blackmail 
A bit of information before you read this: I am writing the beginning of each chapter as a prolonged fiction. Just a few paragraphs, keeping the story going throughout the entire book. The rest of the work is non-fiction; part explanation, part manual, part analysis. 

Hauling against the resistance of the revolving office doors, you emerge and scramble to the train. The only goal is to get home in time to grab the mail as it comes. Becoming keenly aware of every stride, your feet and their awk...

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