Browsing Archive: November, 2015

Thanksgiving.

Posted by Madame Rax on Friday, November 27, 2015, In : Madame's Own 
Madame is thankful for quite a few things. Things you would expect, and things you would not. 

Some of the more strange things I am thankful for include:

1. Fifty Shades of Grey. Not because of the story, but because of the resulting effects. The mainstream public is starting to break down the walls of marginalization and stigma to be able to discuss BDSM. It gets everyone talking. It starts a conversation about a myriad of things, without too many attached horror stories: consent, D/s dynamics...
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Capitalism & Domination: A Love Story

Posted by Madame Rax on Wednesday, November 18, 2015, In : D/s Dynamics 
“Paying for it is a buzzkill.” “I like to have free sessions because it’s more real.” “Other inane platitudes that amount to cheapassery.”

Let’s sit around the campfire and discuss how there is a gulf between submissives and Dommes, in a monetary way. 

First, we shall define money, as provided in a concise sentence provided by Merriam Webster: 


  • Something generally accepted as a medium of exchange, a measure of value, or a means of payment.

When you have the urge to submit to a Dom...

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Cophrophagia, Urolagnia, and Cannibalism - oh My!

Posted by Madame Rax on Friday, November 13, 2015, In : Personal Interests 
The Aghori (sadhus) are an ascetic group who live primarily in India - cremation sites, the desolate Thar desert in Gujarat, and freezing Himalayan caves. They take a monist (as opposed to dualist) approach to life, and thus believe that all things most people would consider evil or virtuous are, in fact, one. To the Aghori, there are no Good or Bad things. They believe that they should deny themselves physical pleasures and embrace things humans normally avoid, like death, coprophagia, and c...
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More, on Financial Domination.

Posted by Madame Rax on Thursday, November 5, 2015, In : D/s Dynamics 
Hard-earned dollars, leaving your bank account. I take hold of them, perking up your ears. Honing your senses. It is a fragile and vulnerable place. Dilated pupils, fear response. What will I do? How will you compensate? The control, the grip, the frantic tightness in your fists. They all let go. And I take over.

The application process and buy-in is the first step. Then the monitoring, the interrogation, the questions. The installation of software and apps. The knowledge I gain is the same k...
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Non-Erotic Ageplay for Psychological Value

Posted by Madame Rax on Tuesday, November 3, 2015, In : D/s Dynamics 
In reading a chapter from Different Loving: The World of Sexual Dominance and Submission, I had a sudden realization that Ageplay may have a practical application within the confines of even vanilla relationships. 

As children, most humans come from a place of vulnerability and a cycle of needs/wants. As adults, most people who care for various forms of children have an underlying empathy, compassion, and understanding for these tiny people. As well, said adults have a higher degree of conside...

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